Thursday, October 14, 2010

H) to convince you to love reading

 Huitie asked how the day has a children love reading. yesterday for a moment, perhaps the parents come to find children's interest in point. proceed from his point of interest, should be the most likely to persuade him love of learning. If you do not know what he likes, took him to learn some hard knowledge, it is very difficult to do.

son likes to listen to my story. And I know a lot of history story. I think that might have made his son look at history books from the beginning. interested in history if he could, he would think to see the history books, then I gave him from the history books to the geographical extension of  social  science, should be easier.

first step is always difficult. how he liked history? I carefully picked out his two stories, I carefully studied the story of causes and effects of these two, and then prepared the blackboard and maps, with vivid descriptions finished him, after which he asked me many historical problems, six months later, he fell in love with history,UGG shoes, now has his own comic book in to see the Three Kingdoms, and after reading a . my two stories are:

1. Sun Bin Pang Juan Battle of Maling Road: This story is a classic, it involves Guiguzi, Sun Bin faking his illness, Weiweijiuzhao, reducing the total lesions, Maling Road Pang Juan in dollars and so on. the story must prepare lessons, must be out of the book is concerned, there must be a map, must have a blackboard to explain. I told him by saying: Pang Juan fooled, and sent the cavalry all the way to catch up with Sun Bin. Sun Bin carefully calculated that day In the evening, Pang Juan Maling Road will catch up. This is a valley, the middle of a road, very narrow, the slopes on both sides of the valley, and there are many trees. Sun Bin soldiers ambush him on the slopes on both sides, ready to bow and arrow. He told the ambush of the soldiers to see the valley as long as there were fires to thousand arrows shot, shot a fire place special.

son interrupted, why shoot fire? I say: Do not worry, the back said. son eyes bright and piercing, staring at me.

Sun Bin letting other soldiers, the valley of the tree, all chopped down, leaving only one of the largest trees. Then he put the bark all unveiled to, and write a few words. son interrupted: what to write words? I said: Do not worry, after that.

Sun Bin arrangements after this began to concentrate on other Pang Juan was. That evening, the sky almost all dark. Pang Juan's cavalry to Maling Road. Pang Juan was the danger looming, and he is very powerful, after all, Sun Bin's classmates. He looked at the valley and saw the valley lying in disorder some trees, he laughed and Oh, Qi Military afraid we do, cut down the trees, tucked in the valley of our cavalry blocking it! chase!

Then he saw the tree not being felled trees. Hey, the tree how would there be the word? He walked under the trees, but, days late, do not know. He turned to the soldier said: Take a torch! soldiers fire to the point. son, you know what he saw? son shook his head. I said: It says: Pang Juan died in this tree! son, lit the torch after you know what happened? son cried, arrows!

2. Zhangpingzhizhan: I let him Shanxi on the map to find to find Shangdang area, find the approximate length of flat orientation. and then to find Xianyang and Handan. I asked him why Get the lead to defend, Chi to war? Why Zhao can not fail, what will fail Handan ?

story must be wonderful to speak. I do not think a boy will not like this story. like this story, and then spread out, I do not think a guy does not like history. fell in love with history, he will find the book to see.

I) What are the benefits of learning piano learning piano

from the beginning, I did not prepare a music culture home. I just think the child is studying music is not easy to learn bad, and I want to do one thing to develop his toughness. Perseverance is a trait of my most recognized.

more than two years old son when we let him help carry the waste to the collection stations to sell home, sell the money goes to his use. his mother often took him to the door and let him know that money is not easy. We often told him that the family did not money, to save a little recently, he felt very natural.

In addition, he often asked me what he can do to make money. I said, you can do right now only sell scrap. He is a bit depressing.

Grading Test this summer, said to be the piano, which is a result of that we do not attach importance to. see in this is his life's face the first test, I think, or hope that he over the exam. four looks difficult, but he was unwilling, they also do not want to go. He asked me why I want to test four. I said, let me think about what benefits Grading Test.

like a long time, I said to him: Perhaps you can Grading the future, teach children, so you can earn money for the home.

he said: and selling scrap ratio, which earned more?

I said: piano lessons, or earn more.

He said: Then how do I find someone to follow me then?

said to me: very simple, you The teacher said to you, if you teach kids, if you need sparring, please introduce me as a teacher.

he says: Oh. But when will I do when sparring?

I said: I think you have to test over ten levels, or else, how can the children of parents trust you to achieve a relatively high level, can teach people of it?

son is looking forward to support the family. In the following days, I often remind him, in order to advance money, you have to diligent practice, to more practice.

J) your father is also a unique

I will not do rice. One time his mother was not at home, I try to do two dishes Yeliang eat. does not care to sesame oil when frying the food. That is what at least two years ago, and now his son has to take this matter to my shabby .

me two days ago he said: Dad, the father of so and so our class is very powerful, he can cook. I often tell my students said, his father's food delicious. You will die, even the dishes are not to be. Also when oil with sesame oil.

I said: son, ah, would not more people speak Mandarin?

he said, and more.

I said: Well, speaking Mandarin will not speak much English?

he said, still with a lot of.

I said: Oh, Mandarin, English, coupled with the Minnan dialect it?

He said many of Taiwan, Xiamen area.

I say, that coupled with the Cantonese it?

he said, it is running out.

I say, that coupled with a French it?

He said that probably only a few people.

I said, for ah, your dad is one of these people. Others the same than not. Other people have other people's strengths, and my father also has the strengths of my father. I like you, too, and all the world's people, are unique. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses,Discount UGG boots, you do not because of someone else's father is more than I will cook you something missing. In the future you do not bring your own shortcomings than others, you are out of print world, your strengths is the capital of your life, have confidence in himself.

K) I will not have a weekend fishing

, we should friend's invitation to go fishing in Dongping reservoir side hill. son of course, very excited, really looking forward to carry her home a few fish soup to drink. He was very patient and spent half an hour I sat waters. However, we not only did not bring the fish catch, the water took the bait often look lost.

son said, definitely a problem with the bait. He proposed to talk to other people a little bit of bait fishing. I agree with the his own people to talk to.

for the bait, the fish still did not catch on to. He said, might be the place we have chosen not to. He told me that we come across two people fishing a lot, and we They can be moved to the side to go fishing.

I agreed. We moved to the side of those two anglers fishing. However, ten minutes later, still no bite.
< br> son began depressed. He went fishing off the two sides to observe how people fishing. back to lay it taught me. I'm shown with did. I'm really not fishing.
< br> However, the fish was still missing. watch the noon, I told my son, I decided to give up, I told him I was not successful in this life until now had to catch a fish on. son can not do anything, had to pack up and go home. I know that he was disappointed.

I said to him, his son, although I did not catch the fish, but I did not feel unhappy. Why are you so upset? I admit I did not do some things I do not force myself to catch the fish ah, I have nothing to depressed? later you can also try fishing, if, like me, have not been able to catch the fish, I suggest you tell yourself, I would not block fishing materials, big deal, I do not catch, but you are not happy unnecessary.

admit that some things idiot, is actually a good thing.

L) how to deal with heavy work?

son did not make good playing last week, there are three songs to be repetitive, a sudden increase in the water in the lake. Bishop of class to the end of the night and collapsed, and and her mother began to get angry, because there is no patience, so many have finished their song. Then,UGG boots cheap, crying.

as he cried a little. I asked him: Son, Cao Cao total number of soldiers going to attack with Sun Quan and Liu Bei?

mad fans three sons some time ago, the current level of three sections belonging to the three countries, he answered me: 800 000.

I said, you know, Sun Quan, Zhou Yu with the number of soldiers to be?

He said: do not know, like thirty.

I said: that Liu Bei how many?

He said: I do not know.

I said : one million, including water Guan Yu Army.

I said: forty thousand pairs of eight hundred thousand. the equivalent of four of the eighty fighting, who would win?

son:. ..... (eight hundred thousand, said he certainly would not win, because the answers already announced)

I said: Zhou Yu won. the face of so many enemy troops, he told Sun Quan said, 80 million, we must first remove one of the most, those people are Jingzhou soldiers, just submission, Cao Cao did not trust them, they did not combat, and we have removed part of the sick, these people are not fighting, we'll eliminate some of the next sitting ships were meant for, they can not lift even the knives are really need to be carefully addressed only about a dozen people. such an analysis, four of the dozen people on the battlefield or the chance to win the.

Zhou Yu's son, listening to the story, tears no longer flow. my hands open, that eight hundred thousand, and then make a right hand like a knife, knife to the cutting knife, first cut out Jingzhou soldiers, then cut disease, then cut seasick, and finally hands Shoulong, told him that Zhou Yu to be faced, there are only a part of so little.

Finally, I said to him, your seven songs, there are some easy, you have to first solve it, solve the two most easy to resolve the two relatively easy, the last remaining three hardest song, and then solve them one by one, eight hundred thousand soldiers than you wail facing large Some cry more effective.

he finally resolved within the scheduled time of all the songs.

M) son's return

son used to see I'm reading the vertical version He was surprised and asked me why the book also can be printed, and he also want to see such a book. I said, it is classical, you can not read. If you want to learn, I can teach you, you can start from the endorsement .

So from last year, I tried to teach him the endorsement, such as Lou Shi Ming, Peach Blossom Spring, Inst and so on. the child's memory is good, plus I'm back with him, and you sentence me one, to learn quickly. Of course, he is not serious at this age when classical learning, so I'm not asking him to memorize, so one year down, only to back his fifth six under. I often spoke to the article will meaning, he said only road along the edge of the word can also be expressed as.

recently because of financial crises, some of my business block, one day after some unhappy home. dinner, I not too many words. son suddenly ran down the table, took out bottles of Erguotou, a small cup, then poured a small cup, bring it to me and trembling.

I asked him: Why pouring? I do not want to drink.

son said: You seem unhappy.

I said: Yes, ah. That how the?

son said: bring up the young burglary, a wine surplus bottles.

Leng Leng, I gave him a few seconds. This one is in a speech Tao Returning Home. I taught him, that I am longing for such a scene, holding the child's hand, go home, into a warm house, pour the wine has good news for me, more people happy scenes ah.

unexpectedly today, I am not happy when his son to use such sentences comfort me. When I was six and a half did not know to comfort my father. He truly made me feel that he feel affection, in return for his parents thinking mind. In recent months, I often think of these words , the signature of it as MSN.

son began to return to me. What I did not convince him, but what he convinced me.

N) in addition to building blocks, you should Play something else

kindergarten teacher reactions son is not interested in something else entirely, only to play with blocks with ease. I know he really obsessed with building blocks, can be kept all day at home and bypass the moment. I do not know nursery there is also what to teach, but I believe he might play something else in another time zone selflessly also construct building blocks.

hobby building blocks is not a problem, but all the time in the bricks without learning anything else would certainly be a problem.

to bed last night, I chat with him in bed. I said: My son, you know, when the university entrance exam to test some class?

He said: mathematics, English, and a political or what is called.

I said, right, is called politics, as well as language, history and geography. At that time the University is difficult to test, if six surgical intensive up your high scores, you have to go to college, the combined score is not enough, you have no chance to go to college.

he did not speak.

I put my every Branch told him the score, in addition to history. He said: Dad, you are very Well test.

I said, ah, the five Division I average of 88 points. But you do not forget ,UGG boots, there is still a subject I'm good at history.

He said: Then you test scores?

said to me: 66 minutes.

he was disappointed to say: That is very bad.

I said: If my history class can reach the other five subjects, the average line, that is 88 points, you know what the consequences would be?

he looked at I look forward to my answer.

I said, my SAT score is 530 points. then you may also know what it means? year liberal arts college entrance Xiamen highest score is 529 points.

son excitedly said: Then you are all friends of Xiamen's first!

I sighed and said: But, no. Although I like and good history, but I did not do well. a Branch is not good enough for me to dream broken. In the future, if you read, but also go hand in hand, each subject should be good, the lame to walk is not far away.

son said: What a shame.

I said: what the teacher said, you are just playing with blocks, painting and singing are not interested in? If you only build a good, others bad, your father's college entrance examination than the worse the results.
son said: But I really like the construction. Otherwise, I will play only three times a week build?

I said: do not have this setup. had time to play, but you want to play other things, whether painting can not sing.

son thoughtfully: So how do I arrange a time it ...

I said: it is your own thing, you'll have to see ....

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